Comments on: To Tell or Not to Tell… That Is The Question! https://www.jessicasitomer.com/to-tell-of-not-to-tell-that-is-the-question/ Savvy Entrepreneur Help - Be a PassionPreneur Mon, 30 Dec 2024 21:30:06 +0000 hourly 1 By: Lisa Manyon https://www.jessicasitomer.com/to-tell-of-not-to-tell-that-is-the-question/#comment-8324 Mon, 10 Mar 2014 01:02:54 +0000 http://www.50firstdatesgirl.com/?p=541#comment-8324 I think you keep it honest. Did you tell the guys you were uncomfortable with their behavior? (I hope you did). If so, it won’t be a surprise when you blog about it. If not, be clear in the future — CRYSTAL clear. Also, by telling and being real you’ll only “scare” the men who are not ready for you. AND you’re setting clear boundaries and intentions to let God, the Universe, the Powers that be, your friends (mine are my “steering committee” and we should create a reality show about that 😉 ) and men who are ready to meet you where you are — exactly what you want and won’t tolerate. Cannot wait to see what happens.
Lisa

]]> By: Jennifer Bourn https://www.jessicasitomer.com/to-tell-of-not-to-tell-that-is-the-question/#comment-8323 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 00:32:54 +0000 http://www.50firstdatesgirl.com/?p=541#comment-8323 While it’s easy for us to read your posts laugh, and tell you to share everything, be honest, and screw the guys, ultimately what you share has to feel good to you. Our entertainment is a byproduct 🙂

]]> By: Mitch Tublin https://www.jessicasitomer.com/to-tell-of-not-to-tell-that-is-the-question/#comment-8322 Mon, 03 Mar 2014 03:05:42 +0000 http://www.50firstdatesgirl.com/?p=541#comment-8322 Jessica,
Yes, we are here for you and if you asked us to help you out I am
certain each of us would do so. Maybe I am going to blow this up
by writing this here or maybe only a few people will read this comment.
No one knows, if you really are going on a date and writing about it other
than you. Unlike a reality show ( is that even real? ) , you are writing a
blog which states this is what you are doing. Of course I know you, so you
are, however, no one would know if you were to get creative and add or subtract
some items or combined some of the personalities would they? I say have some fun, let the audience know these are real dates and you decide what you write
if it has to be what really took place or not.

]]> By: Tiffany deSilva https://www.jessicasitomer.com/to-tell-of-not-to-tell-that-is-the-question/#comment-8321 Sat, 01 Mar 2014 13:05:52 +0000 http://www.50firstdatesgirl.com/?p=541#comment-8321 Share what you feel is appropriate. You are the best judge for what is right for your blog.

]]> By: Mira https://www.jessicasitomer.com/to-tell-of-not-to-tell-that-is-the-question/#comment-8320 Sat, 01 Mar 2014 04:53:46 +0000 http://www.50firstdatesgirl.com/?p=541#comment-8320 I think you need to take it on a case by case basis and only share what you feel comfortable with. You may feel one way one day and differently another day. You don’t want to act in any particular way because you feel you have an obligation to your “audience.” Live life with integrity and be true to what resonates with you. That includes what you do and don’t share.

]]> By: Trudy Scott Food Mood Expert and Nutritionist https://www.jessicasitomer.com/to-tell-of-not-to-tell-that-is-the-question/#comment-8319 Sat, 01 Mar 2014 03:10:03 +0000 http://www.50firstdatesgirl.com/?p=541#comment-8319 I like the honest approach but I hear what Heidi is saying. They may not want to go out with you if they do know….

On a completely side note – could you be jinxing your success with this goal to have 50 first dates? instead of the one perfect date with the one perfect guy?

]]> By: Mary Ellen Miller https://www.jessicasitomer.com/to-tell-of-not-to-tell-that-is-the-question/#comment-8318 Fri, 28 Feb 2014 20:42:15 +0000 http://www.50firstdatesgirl.com/?p=541#comment-8318 Jessica, my concern all along with this little experiment has been for your safety. With that said you may wish to be discreet.

]]> By: The Geek https://www.jessicasitomer.com/to-tell-of-not-to-tell-that-is-the-question/#comment-8317 Fri, 28 Feb 2014 19:39:23 +0000 http://www.50firstdatesgirl.com/?p=541#comment-8317 In reply to Ray.

I really agree with Ray here. Couldn’t say it better.

== The Geek ==

P.S. After having said that, when I read dating profiles, I have to tell you some people that complain about “crazy” I being to realize it’s because THEY are crazy. So, although I’ll grant guys are pretty bad, anything you post may reveal something about yourself too. I think what you are doing is pretty brave, and to me at least, it’s helpful.

I’ve had my own share of bad dates from ladies too. Will send you separate email about that. Heck, I’d be willing to provide material for a guest blog 🙂

P.P.S. Get back out there …

]]> By: Heidi Alexandra https://www.jessicasitomer.com/to-tell-of-not-to-tell-that-is-the-question/#comment-8316 Tue, 25 Feb 2014 06:00:49 +0000 http://www.50firstdatesgirl.com/?p=541#comment-8316 To answer your question I have a question – do the guys you go out on dates with know about your blog and intention to write about the date upfront? If so I see no problem with sharing (personal details excluded of course).

]]> By: Sue Painter https://www.jessicasitomer.com/to-tell-of-not-to-tell-that-is-the-question/#comment-8315 Mon, 24 Feb 2014 01:09:23 +0000 http://www.50firstdatesgirl.com/?p=541#comment-8315 Tell it like it is, sister! 😉 That is entertaining, too, you know……and gives you the honest card to play.

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