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		By: The Geek		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[The Geek]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Jun 2013 23:00:58 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.jessicasitomer.com/stilettos-and-diapers-aka-the-red-flags-of-dating/#comment-8109&quot;&gt;jsitomer&lt;/a&gt;.

Ah - good point!  One said she was a restaurant owner.  I wonder what was on the menu there?

== The Geek ==]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.jessicasitomer.com/stilettos-and-diapers-aka-the-red-flags-of-dating/#comment-8109">jsitomer</a>.</p>
<p>Ah &#8211; good point!  One said she was a restaurant owner.  I wonder what was on the menu there?</p>
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		By: jsitomer		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[jsitomer]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Jun 2013 22:36:33 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.jessicasitomer.com/stilettos-and-diapers-aka-the-red-flags-of-dating/#comment-8108&quot;&gt;The Geek&lt;/a&gt;.

My first thought was prostitute, I&#039;ve heard some weird stories here in Florida! Stay safe out there Geek!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.jessicasitomer.com/stilettos-and-diapers-aka-the-red-flags-of-dating/#comment-8108">The Geek</a>.</p>
<p>My first thought was prostitute, I&#8217;ve heard some weird stories here in Florida! Stay safe out there Geek!</p>
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		By: The Geek		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[The Geek]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Jun 2013 19:40:54 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hey, whatever works.

I&#039;d LOVE to bypass a phone call and go straight to a date.  I think most women prefer not to do that though.

By the way - diapers and stilettos? Who&#039;d notice the diapers if there was a topless woman washing a car?

I find, from the guy side, very few women return emails; when they do, most of the emails never go anywhere, meaning, not to a first date OR call.  I think what happens is they email back a bunch of guys, then pick the youngest.  LOL.  (I&#039;ve never lied about my age online).

If I get a  phone call, they almost always meet.  Maybe I keep my mouth shut enough on the call :)

Maybe it&#039;s a safety thing for most women, wanting to talk on the phone first to make sure &#039;you are real&#039;.  J, I get the impression you could hold your own, so that might not occur to you.

I WILL say I&#039;ve had two really hot women send me their phone numbers on the FIRST email. I stay away from those, which is probably dumb, as I get the impression they are spammers or &#039;phone scams&#039;.

== The Geek ==]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey, whatever works.</p>
<p>I&#8217;d LOVE to bypass a phone call and go straight to a date.  I think most women prefer not to do that though.</p>
<p>By the way &#8211; diapers and stilettos? Who&#8217;d notice the diapers if there was a topless woman washing a car?</p>
<p>I find, from the guy side, very few women return emails; when they do, most of the emails never go anywhere, meaning, not to a first date OR call.  I think what happens is they email back a bunch of guys, then pick the youngest.  LOL.  (I&#8217;ve never lied about my age online).</p>
<p>If I get a  phone call, they almost always meet.  Maybe I keep my mouth shut enough on the call 🙂</p>
<p>Maybe it&#8217;s a safety thing for most women, wanting to talk on the phone first to make sure &#8216;you are real&#8217;.  J, I get the impression you could hold your own, so that might not occur to you.</p>
<p>I WILL say I&#8217;ve had two really hot women send me their phone numbers on the FIRST email. I stay away from those, which is probably dumb, as I get the impression they are spammers or &#8216;phone scams&#8217;.</p>
<p>== The Geek ==</p>
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		By: Tiffany deSilva		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany deSilva]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Jun 2013 16:06:56 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I agree with, Mitch. If they can&#039;t have a decent conversation on the phone and not come off like a complete idiot, then they are not worth your time. Definitely phone first so you can weed out the cuckoo birds.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with, Mitch. If they can&#8217;t have a decent conversation on the phone and not come off like a complete idiot, then they are not worth your time. Definitely phone first so you can weed out the cuckoo birds.</p>
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		By: jsitomer		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[jsitomer]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Jun 2013 14:31:04 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.jessicasitomer.com/stilettos-and-diapers-aka-the-red-flags-of-dating/#comment-8101&quot;&gt;Heidi Alexandra Pollard&lt;/a&gt;.

Clearly a guy who doesn&#039;t like to be kept waiting. There were a few other instances when he wanted my email address to send pictures and I wouldn&#039;t give it to him. That bothered him. personality type: Controlling! Not thanks!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.jessicasitomer.com/stilettos-and-diapers-aka-the-red-flags-of-dating/#comment-8101">Heidi Alexandra Pollard</a>.</p>
<p>Clearly a guy who doesn&#8217;t like to be kept waiting. There were a few other instances when he wanted my email address to send pictures and I wouldn&#8217;t give it to him. That bothered him. personality type: Controlling! Not thanks!</p>
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		By: Katherine C. H. E.		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Katherine C. H. E.]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Jun 2013 13:18:20 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Just imagine if you had wasted an entire evening with &quot;paddleboard fireman&quot; or &quot;you don&#039;t swallow.&quot;  Those would be evenings of your life you&#039;d never get back.  They&#039;d both have revealed their ickiness eventually.  I say:  better to have those conversations first.  Love, Katherine.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just imagine if you had wasted an entire evening with &#8220;paddleboard fireman&#8221; or &#8220;you don&#8217;t swallow.&#8221;  Those would be evenings of your life you&#8217;d never get back.  They&#8217;d both have revealed their ickiness eventually.  I say:  better to have those conversations first.  Love, Katherine.</p>
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		By: Trudy Scott, Food Mood Expert and Nutritionist		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Trudy Scott, Food Mood Expert and Nutritionist]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Jun 2013 01:08:26 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I think phone-screening is a great way to go!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think phone-screening is a great way to go!</p>
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		By: Mira Dessy		</title>
		<link>https://www.jessicasitomer.com/stilettos-and-diapers-aka-the-red-flags-of-dating/#comment-8103</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Mira Dessy]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Jun 2013 23:44:25 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This story makes me so happy I am with my husband and not in the dating market.  I guess things have changed over time as this is totally horrible &quot;courting&quot; behavior.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This story makes me so happy I am with my husband and not in the dating market.  I guess things have changed over time as this is totally horrible &#8220;courting&#8221; behavior.</p>
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		By: Mitch Tublin		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Mitch Tublin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Jun 2013 23:40:21 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Nancy,
When you grocery shop you look at the ingredients right?
Avocado shopping - a little squeeze?  Definitely your time
is worth too much too waste it.  Phone first, then decide.
If he can&#039;t handle a conversation on the phone and sell you
to a date - seriously?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nancy,<br />
When you grocery shop you look at the ingredients right?<br />
Avocado shopping &#8211; a little squeeze?  Definitely your time<br />
is worth too much too waste it.  Phone first, then decide.<br />
If he can&#8217;t handle a conversation on the phone and sell you<br />
to a date &#8211; seriously?</p>
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		By: Heidi Alexandra Pollard		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Heidi Alexandra Pollard]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Jun 2013 10:09:57 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Gosh I am still reeling from his text &quot;We are not a match. Bye” and the other guy asking about sexual stuff 20 mins in - like Sue having been married for 16 years things have certainly changed in the dating game - scary]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Gosh I am still reeling from his text &#8220;We are not a match. Bye” and the other guy asking about sexual stuff 20 mins in &#8211; like Sue having been married for 16 years things have certainly changed in the dating game &#8211; scary</p>
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